Spontaneity

by Marissa @ The Modern Austen on June 19, 2013

“You can devise all of the plans in the world, but if you don’t welcome spontaneity, you will just disappoint yourself.” -Abigail Biddinger

It has been an absolute whirlwind for the past month or so. I feel like I have put the blog on the very back burner–still on my radar, but very low on the list. However, now that it is SUMMER, I hope I can get back into the swing of things. Today, though, I want to talk about how this planner girl abandoned her mental lists and plans and went here:

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On Saturday morning, I woke up to a text (and a phone call) inviting me to join my friend Ashlie and her family friends for a week of relaxation starting NOW. Initially, my practical, planned-out (and exhausted) brain waved off the idea.

I have a doctor’s appointment later this week. I’m supposed to leave for Pittsburgh today. Tomorrow is Father’s Day…

I fell asleep for a few more hours.
Another call.

This time, the excitement for the beach, for an adventure, won out.

Appointments can be rescheduled. Plans can be rearranged. I can celebrate with Daddy when I get back…

And so, in a mad dash of anxious nerves and internal squealing, I haphazardly packed, showered, and navigated my way to the Delaware coast.

And man, was this vacation needed. With the end of the school year and all of these crazy confusing thoughts and emotions I’ve been trying to wrap my mind around, I needed to get away.

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There’s something about the sea that brings clarity. And there’s something about spontaneity that revives. While I only have a little more time left here, I can say that life is a bit clearer and refreshing than before.

“Why not seize the pleasure at once? How often is happiness destroyed by preparation, foolish preparation!” -Jane Austen, Emma

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DIY: Elastic Waist Skirt

by Marissa @ The Modern Austen on June 13, 2013

I finally have a new DIY project to share with you, but I can’t claim credit for it! My lovely friend and sorority sister, Laura, is really crafty and wonderful and she has an awesome tutorial to share with you. It’s perfect for summer and I’ll probably make at least one for myself in the next few months! So here she is . . .

Hello all! I’m Laura, Marissa’s former college roommate and today I’d like to share with you a simple tutorial for an elastic-waist skirt. This type of sewing project is one of the simplest and easiest to start with if you’re a beginner seamstress, or if you’ve got a few hours at the machine under your belt, you can whip up a skirt like this in under an hour!

When I start any craft project for myself, it has to be something fabulous and something functional. Being a fellow teacher and thrift store queen, I like to get the most I can for my time and money. Making elastic-waist skirts fits both of those categories! This fabric stood out to me for its bright color and pattern (all of my skirts are literally black or gray), as well as its draping quality. It’s a rayon blend from Walmart. I believe it was on sale for $4.00 per yard. I bought 1.5 yards and have enough left over for another project!

Elastic Waist Skirt 1

 

Now, onto the tutorial!

You will need:

  • Fabric of your choice, 60” wide, minimum 1 yard for a knee-length skirt
  • Coordinating thread
  • Non-roll elastic, I used ¾”
  • Fabric scissors and/or a rotary cutter
  • Iron and ironing board

To begin, wash and dry or line dry your fabric, and then iron out the wrinkles.

Take the following measurements:

  1. Where you want your skirt to sit, measure around your waist.
  2. How long you want your skirt to be, measure from where your skirt will sit to where the hem will fall.

You will be cutting two rectangular panels for your skirt. Take your waist measurement and divide it by two. (Example, mine is 36”, so divided by 2 would be 18”).

Take that number (in my case 18”) and add 4” if you want a more A-line skirt, or 8” if you want a fuller, fluffier skirt. I added 4” to mine. That answer is your width measurement (mine was 22”).

The length of the panel is simply the length you would like your skirt to be plus 6” to account for the elastic casing and hem.

My panels were 22” x 26”.

Cut your panels.

Take your two panels and put them right sides together. Be conscientious if your fabric has a pattern with a specific direction. My fabric is mostly floral, but does have pineapples, so I had to make sure my pineapples were upright!

Sew your two panels down the sides with ½ inch seams. This creates a skirt-like tube that will not stay up on your hips.

Iron your seams flat.

Next, you should orient your skirt so that the top of it is in your hands. You will now be sewing the casing for the elastic. Take your iron and fold down the top ¼” and press the whole way around. Then fold it down again 1” and press the whole way around. I used lots of spray starch to help secure it in place because I try to avoid pinning fabric in place when possible. Now sew this 9/10ths of the way around, as close to the edge as possible. This creates the casing for your elastic and keeps all fraying ends out of sight!

Make sure you do not sew the whole way around just yet! Leave about a 3-4” gap so you can insert the elastic into the waist.

The best way to cut exactly how much elastic you need is to take it and hold it around your waist, slightly stretched, and mark how long you need. (This generally comes to your waist measurement minus 2-4 inches.) Be sure to add two inches for sewing purposes later.

When threading in elastic, I like to hook a huge safety pin to one end to help speed along the process. Thread that through the casing you just made, making sure you don’t lose the other end!

By now you should have your elastic threaded and ready to be sewn together. Squish your skirt together to be as out of the way as possible, and then overlap your ends of elastic by 1”. I prefer to sew a square over that inch to keep the elastic from bunching or puckering after it’s done. You can see in my picture that it’s not a perfect square, but it works just the same!

Once that’s finished, you can tuck the elastic back up into the skirt and smooth it out to sew the little gap you left undone. You’re almost done with the casing!

One issue I found in this trial-and-error process was that my elastic band slid around too much while I was wearing it. Solution: Sew one line of thread around the waist of your skirt. To do this, get ready to sew. Put your presser foot down and insert the needle into the elastic band. Stretch the elastic as you sew. It sounds like it would be an epic disaster (at least that’s what I thought would happen!), but since the elastic is stretched as it is sewn, it bunches up after on its own while keeping the elastic in place. It’s the best idea ever!

Lastly you need to hem the bottom of the skirt! Go ahead and try it on first, to double check the length. Remove the skirt, fold up the bottom ¼” and press, then fold it up again to your desired length, press, sew the whole way around, and you’re done!

Don’t worry about imperfections, either! My skirt has a few loops and crooked stitch lines, but you can’t tell!

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Once you’re all finished, it’s ready to wear!

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Isn’t it great?! Thank you Laura for writing such a detailed and easy-to-understand post! Love you!

 

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A Letter to My Students

by Marissa @ The Modern Austen on June 12, 2013

Dear Students,

Congratulations! You’ve just graduated tonight and I couldn’t be more proud. If you’re reading this, you are one of the very few who I have permitted to have a glimpse into my life as a former student and as a friend. Knowing this, I only ask one thing of you: please keep this blog from the prying eyes of your classmates and those students who remain at school. It’s my creative outlet that I must keep separate from my professional life. Chances are, if you’re reading this, you are someone I already trust anyway :)

I know I’ve already given my “goodbye speech” and probably shed a few tears tonight and gave you hugs and congratulated you, but my heart is full with gratitude and memories and experience. When I started this year, I was so unbelievably unhappy, stressed, worried, and disillusioned. It was only about a few months ago that I truly realized how blessed I am to be where I am and to teach where I do.

Because of you, I’ve gone from questioning my career path to feeling confident in my profession. Because of you, I have gone from crying daily to laughing hourly. Because of you, I walk away from this year feeling accomplished, educated, and most of all, loved. You have worked hard and you have achieved so much, but you took the time to make a young teacher lady happy and there aren’t enough words to express how much I appreciate it.

To say I will miss all of you is an understatement. I don’t like knowing that I won’t spend every day laughing with you and teaching and learning from you. But what I am most excited about is that I have gained a number of very special friends who I hope will allow me to play a small role in their next journey.

Thank you again, for everything. I will never ever forget this year for as long as I live.

Love,

Ms. B

P.S. Don’t make fun of my blog.

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What to Wear to a Graduation Party

by Marissa @ The Modern Austen on June 11, 2013

It’s graduation party season and most likely you’ll be invited to at least one. So far, I’ve been to two and my kiddos haven’t even graduated yet (TOMORROW!). It’s always a toss up when deciding what to wear because most parties are outside and the weather can be pretty unpredictable. To add another layer of complication, because I’m still the “teacher,” I can’t just wear any old tank top and shorts, especially knowing that other students and parents will be around.

Here’s what I decided on for an outside pavilion party:

LOFT Tee Khaki Shorts 1

LOFT Tee Khaki Shorts 2

Top: LOFT
Shorts: Old Navy (old)
Necklace: J. Lloyd Beads (see also here)
Sandals: Kohl’s (last year)

I felt like the top was pretty appropriate because it’s not extremely form-fitting and it has quarter sleeves. I paired it with neutral shorts (not too short) and some comfy sandals. The necklace keeps it a little dressier as well. I felt comfortable, covered, and put-together.

What are you wearing to graduation parties?

Be prepared–tomorrow I get a little sappy with a letter to my students. I can’t believe they’ll (finally) be graduating! I may even have some “new” readers…

Linking up to: The Pleated Poppy’s WIWWStyle Elixir’s Style SessionsRolled up Pretty’s Whatever Whenever Wednesday,  Get Your Pretty OnTransatlantic’s WIWW

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Numbers

June 10, 2013

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Book Review: Remember Me? By Sophie Kinsella

June 6, 2013

Remember Me? by Sophie Kinsella My rating: 4 of 5 stars My coworker and friend Ashlie and I are both young English teachers who love a fantastic beach read. We love to walk around bookstores and create never-ending lists of books we want to read, but after a long year of teaching and analyzing, all [...]

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Ruffles and Peplum

June 5, 2013

Blouse: Express (Goodwill) Skirt: Limited (Goodwill) Belt: From Old Navy Dress Heels: Payless Sunglasses: Kate Spade This outfit is rather dressy considering how business casual I’ve been recently, but I really like it! I was surprised by how much I liked this ruffled peplum top and thought it would do well over a pencil skirt. [...]

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Neutral

June 4, 2013

Top: LOFT (Goodwill) Pants: Express (Goodwill) Necklace/Earrings: NY & Co. Flats: Famous Footwear After the Pantone-Inspired Spring Color Challenge that Heidi and I hosted, I realized several things, but one that many of the link-up participants commented about (on the day we wore “Linen“) was that we all could use a little more neutrals in [...]

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And the Winner is…

June 1, 2013

Just wanted to announce that the winner of the $25 Target Gift Card is Rosie! Congratulations Rosie! You will be hearing from me soon via email!   Thanks to all who entered! I really appreciate the support Here’s to another year of blogging!

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Decorate Your Fanny

May 31, 2013

Yes, you read that title correctly. I even considered going as far as “Bedazzling Your Fanny,” but I didn’t have the guts. Let me explain before you X out of this post! A few weeks ago, I chaperoned the senior class trip to Six Flags. Funny story, I hate rollercoasters. Anyway, I knew I needed [...]

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